Family SecretsGrammie asks me to promise I’ll never grow old, stroking my blonde hair reassuringly, as if I’m a reluctant dog. She tells me I remind her…Sep 7, 2020211Sep 7, 2020211
Published inAn Idea (by Ingenious Piece)What I Learned about Masculinity from my Father“It is not as if what is true, right, urgent and necessary is a light, and what is harm is darkness. They are both darkness; they are both…Jun 11, 2019306Jun 11, 2019306
What’s Savasana For?“A healer is someone that triggers healing powers within you”Apr 8, 2019242Apr 8, 2019242
Over DinnerSome women get erased a little at a time, some all at once. Some reappear. Every woman who appears wrestles with the forces that would…Feb 1, 2019178Feb 1, 2019178
To Be Seen“It’s not what you look at that matters. It’s what you see.” — ThoreauJan 15, 2019172Jan 15, 2019172
Strike Your Note“Pathmaker, there is no path. You make the path by walking. By walking, you make the path. ”Oct 21, 2018118Oct 21, 2018118
Don’t Let the Bastards Grind You DownThe reward for conformity is that everyone likes you except yourself.Jul 19, 201881Jul 19, 201881
What I Learned Pole DancingFor the past few months, I’ve been training with a woman we call J. She’s an accomplished athlete, dancer, performer and business owner…Jun 23, 201824Jun 23, 201824
Hold My HandGayle died when we were fourteen. We were roommates in the Hematology/Oncology ward in Children’s Hospital in Los Angeles the spring of our…Jun 17, 201839Jun 17, 201839
Quiet StreetOnce you realize that the road is the goal and that you are always on the road, not to reach a goal, but to enjoy its beauty and its…Apr 22, 201856Apr 22, 201856
Dark GiftsIt’s very hard to grow, because it’s difficult to let go of the models of ourselves in which we’ve invested so heavily.Mar 31, 2018Mar 31, 2018
Let’s Talk about Enthusiastic Consentit was when i stopped searching for home with othersFeb 18, 2018Feb 18, 2018
About ArtUltimately, art helps us resist oppression, whether internally or externally enforced.Jan 13, 2018Jan 13, 2018
Published inthe baselineYou Don’t Need a Degree:And newspapers are dead, so why is journalism even part of the college curriculum?Sep 23, 2016Sep 23, 2016
Published inthe baselineNope, Not SorryIn the documentary film “Never Sorry,” a reporter from the BBC interviews the influential renegade artist Ai Wei Wei, as he is returning…Nov 24, 2015Nov 24, 2015